OK...I guess I feel the need to chime in on this topic. I totally agree with ian559 but I would go further.

What would you do in this scenario...and be totally honest! You lose whatever amount of weight you do/want and your hubby shows absolutely no response to this great achievement that is obviously very important and uplifting to you. How would that make you feel?

I know that if I never commented, initiated sex, or however I chose to communicate how great she is doing I would be in the doghouse for sure. It seems as if we are caught in that "catch 22"...If we comment and show affection now that you lost weight we must not have cared or loved you as much as when you where heavy...but if we say nothing and act no differently we must not be aware or notice our wives and therefor don't care.

C'mon...give the cavemen a break...urgh...uhm! You know how shallow and immature we are as humans.

Cody