as a man I have to ask a few questions of you ladys?
You say your men are more agressive now? But did the men harp on you to loose or where they accepting and loving no matter how high the weight got?
I know at my heavyiest I let my appearance wane...
But when I lost 70lbs 2 years ago I was buying new clothes, changed my hair style, and I was horney as hell because I felt good!!!. My wifes weight flucuates all the time. When its up she does not feel sexy and even though I love her and she is my best freind sex wanes during those times. Its not that I dont want her as much its that her self esteem is lower and she is not as aproachable. During these times a well placed hug and a I love you mean 100 percent more than come on honey lets get it on............