Feel the power! My husband married me when I was much heavier, but I still felt attractive, but now I am feeling more confident. I actually caught him "checking me out". I called him on it, laughing. He didn't even notice he had done it! That was very nice actually! If your husband is pushing it a little too far, he may just be unsure of what to do with his "new" wife. If not, and he is chasing you this much now.......you are in deep #~$t when you lose a few more pounds, better start running now!!!