I've noticed it too, so can sympathize. My dh would be a goner if he said something like that. I have only lost 35#'s so far, but the way he treats me is much different. It goes beyond sex, which was always good, albeit had slowed down from the 'bunny' stage of youth. We try new things *ahem* & the frequency has picked up. We also DO things together now - like riding the atv's. He actually sat next to me at the beach in my b athing suit. I have noticed these things and it hurt(s) to know he looked at me differently when I was heavier. Sometimes, I want to say something, but all that would do is start a fight. I take the extra attention now and try not to read into it - just enjoy it.

I sympathize though, and I would let your dh know the groping offends you. Good luck!