Hey Frodo

Best wishes from Scotland. I am sorry you felt so bad. I hope the clouds have passed for you. You remind me of me (with me it's hormones) only I am rather self destructive too. I can't take something nice and leave it at that, I have to turn it around to be an insult.

My other thing is I mean it 100% at the time and it's not until it passes I feel stupid.

I hope you feel better. If you think your husband doesn't notice or care, perhaps you should kick his arse until he does notice.