It must be tough, Arnie. I remember what it was like for my SO while I clutched at straws trying to figure it out. I think perhaps there is something more frustrating than doing what you've been told is right and not getting results - it's watching someone you care about do it and not be able to help.

Every plan isn't right for everyone. I am sure between the two of you, you'll find one that works for her. Don't give up. As for your knowledge level? It's higher than it was yesterday, right?

N