I want to say congrats to you on your fabulous weight loss. Size 8 and 130 lbs sounds like a great accomplishment. Pat yourself on the back.

What is your BMI at this point? Is it in the healthy range? Go to one of the medical web-sites and find out. Then if your husband says you should be 120, say, "No, I'm really looking great just as I am and I'm at a healthy weight for me. If I lose more, I'll be unhealthy."

He sounds awful controlling to me. Does he control other areas of your life as well? How good looking is Mr. Perfect?

Take a long, long look at what's going on here. I wish you happiness and success.

Jeannie