I read this post once, waited a long time, then reread it. And I keep thinking the same thing. You are a younger married couple aren't you? Been there done that. Eighteen years into the marriage and many times up and down the scales he has finally learned. No longer does he bug me about my weight! Ofcourse he is very happy right now with me losing, don't get me wronge. But over time he has learned that nagging me about it gets him no where! I've beaten him into submission his words not mine.


Just keep on doing what you are doing, because you want to. Stop when you want to. HE may take some time to grow, but sooner or later he will grow.

And if you can wait till that long, tell him you don't feel like "it" tonight. You feel to fat to want to have sex. That may help him start sending compulments your way.

On a last note (the poor misguided man) in his brain he thinks he is helping you.