I grew up skinny and remember even then hating the way people treat my bigger friends, I found it just as hateful and insulting as when they were taking the piss out of me for being so thin. As I've gotten bigger and bigger I've found that people who know 'me' treat me exactly the same, people who only see the shell can be disgraceful. I used to hate buying 'treats' in the supermarket (such as steak and cream for a special meal), I'd find myself trying to explain it away to the cashier - "It's for an anniversary meal", tonight at the supermarket I revelled in buying the same things while my jeans were slipping down over my hips.