well it would be nice to be a strong as you!!
Maybe now I am not the victim but somebody else will be, but its not a case of choosing it, its people other comments and actions that upset peope. I fought back everyday I went out there and held my head up high, but it still didnt stop other people abusing me!! Take a moment and think about what upsets you most and then think about people ridiculing you everday, see how long you can last without it getting to you!!