Noram, I'm not going to get into the debate over your choice of a girl since I'm way out of touch at 49!

BUT... my concern is that you want to lose so much so fast for this girl. I think you need to lose it for yourself or it will not stay off. The last thing you want to do is drop a lot of weight and then regain it all, do you? You need to rethink your motivation.

How to do it? Exercise, stay away from too many nuts and cheese, make sure you eat enough calories!

Good luck!
Amy