I believe that you just want to help her!

Try Pilates....I have Winsor Pilates, they make an ab tape...very hard to do. I just bought them off Ebay for like $10.

How much did she gain while prego, when and what did she have? I had a little girl in 2000 and a boy last year. I gained 70 the first time and 35 the second. Now I am just trying to get off the 5 pounds and a few extra, tat I gained on vacation in June.

P.S. Did you really have a DNA test to prove your kids were yours?