My husband is sort of similar. He needs to lose weight also and his family has a history of very early heart problems. his father died of heart attack when he was 33!!! My husband is now 28!

He has such a hard time exercising but I know that is what would help him most. I got him to at least try the 25 minute tae bo tape I was doing this morning and he didn't even complete it, maybe about 10 minutes. I was really worried to see how tired he got how quickly.

He right now is at least doing something though he is trying slimfast. He did low carb with me for a while but he cheated a lot and didn't hardly lose anything so he went back to slimfast.

I try to be enthusiastic about it but other than that and encouragement I don't know what you can do.