Thank you Beachdream! I think I'll try a stool softener, that sounds like a great idea.

Thanks to all of you for your help in this delicate matter!! Believe me, I didn't think I'd ever be talking about this sort of thing either! LOL!

Thankfully the movement has begun so I'm not worried anymore!!! LOL

And it's all thanks to you lot! You're stars! The lot of ya!!! xxx