Hi Melissa,

I know EXACTLY where you are coming from!!! My hubby and I have been together for 17 years (married 14 of it)..and he is STILL the same size as when we met. In fact, he looks exactly the same. He is getting a few grey hairs and wrinkles...but he still makes my heart skip a beat when he walks in a room.

When I first starting dieting...I told him that I could no longer eat the majority of the things he ate. I did treat myself once a week to whatever I was craving that week...but other than that...we ate totally different foods. I had to cook separate meals a lot of times and to be honest, it was hard.

He still drinks his beer, eats his candy and sweets, eats his chips, pasta and potatoes...but he can do that...I can't. I can't deprive him of something he likes just because I can't do it...but it would be nice if they wouldn't do it around us...you know?

Take care and good luck!!

(beautiful children btw)