I really understand where you are coming from. I suffered all those symptoms with the exception of the loss of TOM. My gp kept telling me me all my symtpoms were normal and I too thought I would lose my mind!!

I spent alot of time at Low carb friends. a gal there referred a lot of people to www.about.com site with Mary SHoman. There is so much info about being in normal range and still not feeling well etc.

I went to a dr on from the recommended doc site . Well I was recently diagnosed with Hashimoto's thyroid and put on synthoid. I still have some other symptoms that wont go away but basically I was NORMAL too. Also the lab ranges have changed.. check out that site for lost of great infomation. there is also a thyroid newletter called Thyroid-info there as well.

I hope you find some answers.