One more thing:

I'll be posting my horrible 250 pound photo and then whatever weight I am by Oct 31 of this year to show the loss of the last two years... I am committing to that - although I'm gonna hate to scan that picture - I just have not seen any photos of guys who have been through this - it's all the women with the guts to show the before/after here - so I figured what the heck? Why not? I promise to show a little leg too <lol>...

I am now 215 pounds and am heading back towards 185 and a tight butt - so this 42 year old aerospace webmaster ( recently single) has a shot at meeting a fine looking woman again...