Everybody is different which if you read many of the posts here you will see. Try to not compare yourself with anyone else. I had a good initial weight loss but I have 80 pounds to lose so that makes a difference. Now I have slowed down to a pound or maybe two a week but that is okay. I would rather have the scale inching down instead of up! Other people can be such morons sometimes! Do let 'em get to you. I am constantly surprised at what people will say!