Sango,

For me, I think our weight goal is a matter of our preferance - and one that is reasonable and within a healthy range. I judge my weight goal as to how I would like to see myself in clothes. At 5' 6", and of medium frame, I would like to see myself at 120 lbs. I have been at 115 lbs, and that looked really sick. Everyone thought I was aneroxic or bullimic!!

For a while (just a while!) I enjoyed my weight at 145 - 150 lbs - it filled up my jeans and spotted a J-Lo's kind-of butt and I felt simply voluptous and sexy. It feels great to be hugged too!!!

But I am thru' with that phase now cos I was beginning to tug my shirt off my body, and was feeling very sluggish.

That said which is just IMHO, there is no reason why one shouldn't go by the medical calculations if one is receptive to it.