Hi Cynthia,
I think we all have been were you are today. Wanting to celebrate for a special occasion. Sometimes our biggest supporters become our worst supporters when they as well as you want to celebrate? Food is and always will be the reward we are all wanting. It is hard to imagine loved ones sabotaging our food plan. We really have to be the one in charge of what we put into our mouths.
Do not be discouraged; keep the happy memory of celebrating and the enjoyment it brought. The trick that is so hard is to try at the very next meal to get back the reality and sanity only a sensible food plan can bring. Again! Happy birthday. Today is a new day and with it comes decisions. What will make you happy today? Good luck with the decisions you make for your well being today.
hugs Martha