Alot of good opinions have been posted in this thread.
I agree that those who do cheat, do need to come here for support, what I don't agree with is Coddling those same people over and over again, at some point they have to realize they are not doing the diet/woe.
I also don't beleive that while giving support, sugar coating the problem is the right way to do it. After all the support is meant to be something to keep you on this way of eating, not helping one to justify what they have done.

Hope that makes sense.

Cheers Kathy