Chantalina,

All I can say is "I feel you." I'm in the same boat and it's getting crowded in here. There are quite a few of us in your situation. I'm grateful for this forum because I always felt like I was the only one.

The counsel you've been given is sound. It's tough when there is someone nearby losing at a rabbit's pace and you're "slow and steady." But remember, the tortoise won the race!

Hang in there... Some people get that "whoosh" effect which means no loss for days (or weeks) and then a sudden drop. Keep posting. I'm with you in spirit.