He sounds a bit insecure to me. Only he knows why the thought of a thinner you would threaten him. Maybe you should ask him if he wants you to be healthier and thinner? If he says yes, mention to him that his behaviors are not consistent with a yes reply. Chocolate is not a good food on any diet!!!

When I was in college, I drank too much beer and ate too much junk food. I gained weight and wanted to lose it. When I came home for the summer, my dad would jog with me and be supportive in my weight loss efforts. My mom was overweight and would make my favoite desserts when I was trying to lose weight. I asked her to to stop making the desserts and she got mad. One night she told me that I must really think that I'm special because I was losing weight. She stated that she was tired listening to it and about the miles my dad and I jogged. She was just jealous because she was overweight and unhappy about.

Angie