Thu, Jul-10-03, 14:51
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Posts: 63
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Plan: Atkins/SBD
Stats: 185/166/130
BF:???
Progress: 35%
Location: Northeast US
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My issues are serious. I equate my weight with my "worthiness" to receive romantic love. For example, I don't think I "deserve" sex until I can control my weight/food issues. I need therapy! But even if I do receive therapy, will I really be able to actually go out there and meet a man who loves me the way I am? That's not really in my control, is it? Besides, relying on a man (i.e. external source)'s love to control my issues is NOT a good way to resolve this anyhow.
Thanks for this thread. I've made good progress so far, but as many have said I always seem to drift away and sabotage myself at the 20 lb mark, and I'm getting close to it.
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