I don't mean to offend anyone with this, but I don't really understand why this is a bad thing? You should want your families to be healthy too, so I don't see what is wrong with them eating your food. Why don't you just ask them what they would prefer to eat? If they want chicken wings instead of pizza, order wings for them too. I think its amazing that everyone on this site complains about how unhealthy sugar and refined carbs are, but get upset when their families make healthy choices! I for one would be thrilled if my DH choose to eat one of my SF jellos or made a salad for his lunch, or wanted eggs rather than a poptart for breakfast! Its nice to have enough stuff in the house, but I would prefer to go to the grocery store an extra time and have my kids eating better. just me though.