Well dear, some people are just thick as bricks!

But I think this thread is very similar to the one about people having trouble dealing with positive attention after weight loss. With every compliment about your weight loss, you are reminded of the unspoken notice and possible behind your back chatter about your prior weight gain. In this case, the person is accomplishing both at the same time.

I always take double handed comments in the spirit in which they are given. If the person is sincere and kindly, albeit clumsy, I am pleased. If there is underlining resentment or hostility, I shrug it off.

Keep up your good work.