I'm sorry to hear that... I know how painful it is when somebody you care about says something like that. And like you said... it's your TOM. Me too. My poor fiancé has been having to deal with me and my oversensitivity. I'm sure if he said something like that to me, I would've stopped talking to him for a couple of days. Not on a normal day. Just on a PMS day. I would've been SO HURT.

Like others have said, just realize that you've come a long way and don't let his words diminish that. Sometimes people do say things without realizing the harshness of their words. Sad to say, but I'm like this. It's like... stuff just pours out of my mouth before my brain has time to really think about what I'm saying. Not a very good habit and definitely not one I'm proud of.