Yeah, i say screw what those weight charts say!! If you are comfortable in your own skin, and feel happy - then that is all that matters!
When i made my goal, it was from previous low weight that i felt good at. I never even took into consideration what the charts said. I have been thinking about it the last couple of days, since i fit into my size 12 new skirt - i don't want to be much smaller. I *LOVE* being curvy - i don't want to be super skinny. I think that woman were meant to have curves on them, and i don't need to fit into a size 8 to feel good about myself. It is all about personal preference!! You make your own rules!!