I have a lot of issues with my mother. I know my mother has some major problems. I don't know how someone who is normal could make sure I was not told my brother died until two weeks after his death and then it was an accident that I was told and he died suddenly. Things have never been the same since then(year ago)and she can't understand what she did. (I never got to sya goodbye)

Thanks for the input about the possibilities for "why" she does things like the weight thing. I just believe my mother is a mean person. I am so glad we live thousands of miles apart.